Sunday, January 22, 2012

Quality Time with the Host Family (or, Ruminations on Moroccan TV)

      “So, what exactly is going on?” We had to ask about ten times last night while watching a singing game show on Arabic MTV, and we still didn’t get it. The contestants were famous singers, who had to do abbreviated karaoke ranging from “Someone Like You” to “Oh, Susanna” as well as Arabic and French songs. After singing, each celebrity team of three had to choose a number from one to six, which corresponded to a box. Behind each number was a word from a lyric in another song. If the contestants chose the right number, the box lit up blue and another word was revealed. If they guessed incorrectly, the box was red but still revealed a word. The turn of play transferred to the other team, who proceeded to sing another section of another song. But the rhyme or reason to what made the guess wrong or right evaded us for the entirety of the show, as did the relevancy of any of the songs. The singing, however, was sing-a-long style with the lyrics on screen, so we belted our hearts out to Bryan Adams and Maroon 5. Our host sisters had to sing along alone on the Arab hits – for now. Our host sister (who turns 30 soon) compared the host to Lady Gaga – “She’s very strange,” she said after I couldn’t help but let out a “What is she wearing?!” Personally I wouldn’t subject Lady Gaga to the insult of being compared to this host, but she definitely added an extra element of confusion to the show.
        The night before, we’d all enjoyed Arab Idol (after catching the end of Project Runway, in English with Arabic subtitles). It was the first Friday night elimination round of the show, and we were rooting for the three Moroccan female singers. The contestants’ names would be called after clips of their songs from the previous episodes. Everyone sang in Arabic, one of the requirements of the show. This surprised me, since our host brother in Fez and his friends listened almost exclusively to English music. After we were reminded of how talented everyone was, the crying began as contestants were eliminated. The men managed to mostly stay stoic, but a couple of the women sent back to their bleacher seats on the side of the stage let out a few tears. The shockingly skinny Moroccan girl advanced, but the hefty Egyptian with a deep and moving voice to match was, in my opinion, unfairly denied. Some of the contestants returned to their seats with smiles, and our host sister explained, “They got a second chance.” We weren’t entirely sure what that meant, since there proceeded to be no additional singing.
        Whereas I’ve only seen one woman wearing a T-shirt on the streets, on television all concerns of modesty disappear. Strapless shirts and dresses, short skirts, and tight everything is suddenly okay. Even in family photos, arms can be bared without protest. I’d like to return to Rabat in the summer, since the winter weather could be the motivation for the conservative clothing. Even if I could wear shorts, it’s far too cold, except in direct sunlight in the middle hours of the day, and never inside these ice-box buildings.
        Our Arab Idol viewing was cut short by a text from our friends inviting us out for a post-dinner snack. We took them up since dinner at our place had been more like teatime, with some light breadstuffs and tea around 6:30. That’s not to say teatime wasn’t utterly delicious. We were treated to ghaif, a thin flaky pancake reminiscent of scallion pancakes but without the scallions, and Moroccan crepes with honey. Since we’d sat around chatting and watching Arab Idol for an hour it too, it was lucky that our inviters were guy friends, since it was well after dark. Yesterday afternoon, I walked alone through the medina as well as the new part of the city without any problems – my long pants and sleeves and high collar helped me avoid all but a few cat-calls – and I felt completely safe sitting alone in the Andalusian gardens of the Kasbah to read. But once the sun goes down, the city takes on a different feel and unaccompanied women disappear from the streets. It’s weird to be walking along a main boulevard and suddenly realize that you and your friend are the only females you can see, while the streets are filled with men.
        Our exploits last night, though, were completely safe, thanks to our escorts who picked us up at our door and walked us back. (I'm going to owe these guys a lot of baked goods when we get back to Chicago!) We headed down Muhammed V street, the main boulevard of the modern city lined with cafés, bakeries, and newsstands. We bought small ice cream cones for less than an American dollar each and tried some falafel and schwarma at a Middle Eastern restaurant for about $5 total. We were home just a little after the suggested arrival time of 10:00pm – but our host sister didn’t seem to mind unlocking the “big door” to let us in to the vestibule that leads to the main house’s door and our own wing’s door. When we asked if being out a little past ten would be okay, she said, “Yeah, don’t worry, I’m open minded.”
        Although Moroccan television has been utterly confusing so far, I’m sure American shows are just as incoherent without the correct cultural and language knowledge to pick up on everything. And the show isn’t the point of our evening rendezvous in the big house’s sitting room. We gather around sweet mint tea for a quiz from our host sister’s son (aged 2) on the words for “bread” and “coffee” (he doesn’t tire of asking until he’s checked our knowledge 40 times), to learn new ones from our host sisters, and to bond over our praise and criticisms of the celebrities who smile at us from the TV. While watching television together, the reach of globalism is undeniable. Perhaps it’s only a matter of time before the laxity in dress trickles down to the streets. Whether that would be good or not is a matter for another day, when our dinner conversations move beyond pop songs and my host sisters can weigh in.

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